“AITA For Telling My Bridesmaid She’d Have To Lose Weight If She Wanted To Be In My Wedding?”

So many things can go wrong when planning a wedding, it seems. And the worst thing is when a force majeure hits you, like a worldwide pandemic. You have to reschedule everything, and a lot of things can change in the two years it takes the world to recover.

People’s bodies change often, so it’s no surprise that a bridesmaid may no longer fit into her dress. And this is exactly what happened to u/Ill-Trick4313. Her bridesmaid asked for a new dress since the old one became too small. But drama ensued after the Redditor refused, so she came to r/AITA to ask people whether she was being unreasonable.

Many people reported gaining weight during the pandemic, and so did this one bridesmaid

Image credits: John Diez / Pexels (not the actual photo)

But when her friend, the bride, refused to buy her a new dress, she got called out for fat shaming and being “an awful friend”

Image credits: Sincerely Media / Unsplash (not the actual photo)

Image credits: Juan Pablo Serrano Arenas / Pexels (not the actual photo)

Image credits: Ill-Trick4313

The commenters asked OP whether they considered other options, like a thrift store or alteration

Some commenters believed the bride wasn’t the bad guy

Others called her out for being insensitive

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